to wait until at least today to write this blog. Wait until most race recaps are written and the attention begins to turn to the next race. So my step dad is out of town for a few weeks and usually I watch the races with few friends or on my own, most of my family do not like nascar at all. I watch every race I can and listen to races when they go to cable (my mom lives in the stone age and doesn’t have cable yet!! ) But I asked my mom if she would like to watch the race with me, kinda fitting with it being the Mothers day race. My mom who has no clue about racing said yea. So there we sat through pre race ceremonies, and interviews, and analysis and all the while I was waiting for her to get up and walk away. The green flagged waved and the first caution came out with Stewart and Sadler. She looked at me and said let the wrecking begin. I could only laugh because she seemed so amused by this. She asked me questions and and I explained things like the Darlington Stripe, Being loose on and tight off, I explained caution laps and race off pit road. And she seemed amused. She seemed more surprised that I knew as much as I have and I told her this. I love this sport. i love the fact that when the green flag waves I get butterflies in my stomach. I love what it represents and it’s history. I love the idea speed and the total control over loss of control. She never realized how long I have been watching this sport. She laughed when I cheered when Gordon took the lead. When Kyle won I threw a sock at the tv and we both started to laugh. I explained the chase and why it was so important for Gordon just to run well even without a win. She asked me about the race last year I went to and I think I have told her the story a hundred times but I don’t mind telling it again. I still got chills running down my arms.She said my eyes lit up when I talk about it. I told her think about your favorite thing to do, and amplify it thousand times thats what i felt. My mom asks how i can sit and watch this for hours and never get bored. I siad its not just watching, it is listening, to the drivers, to the crews, to the broadcaster. You learn something. I have learned something new every race. I have the drivers I can’t stand and my I have the drivers I root for. I don’t beleive you should insult another driver or another person for that matter in any case. I never wish anything bad on a driver.
I talked to her about my blogs and how much I enjoy writing about this sport and how nice it is to find a place where everyone feels the same way you do. Where you can complain about something and know someone will hear you. My mom asked me after half way, if there was a halftime show..I couldn’t help but laugh, she goes well every other sport has that. As we sat there and the hours went by and the laps were winding down she turned to me and said if I had know you loved this so much 10 years ago maybe we could have done something about that. I turned and said it’ never to late….She laughed and said tonight was fun..this was the best night I have had in awhile and I agreed. It was pretty good, nothing compares to sitting and enjoying something you love with someone you love more than anyone.
12 Comments
PoorSpellor
May 13 2008 23:07
After all the garbage posted here recently,
This was a most welcome and refreshing blog. I’ll let the spelling errors go but I’ll be watching. Tell your Mom we all say “welcome” to the NASCAR world.
dar1963
May 13 2008 19:44
thats great
my mom wouldnt sit through a race for nothing,so good for you!!
MTBuschFan
May 13 2008 16:54
What a nice experience
with your mother. You are such a thoughtful person. We will have to watch a race together someday! Another Great Blog!!!
cartercrew
May 13 2008 15:26
WOW,
what a nice story!! Thanks for sharing!
chica20586
May 13 2008 14:17
JV
I can only hope to get my mom to go to a live race. But its too loud for her. But this was a great moment!!
JVWORLD
May 13 2008 14:14
So true....
I really enjoy it when my wife takes the time to watch a TV race with me. She has her favs and can’t wait to go with me again this year to Montreal for the Nationwide race.
Cheers,
JV
chica20586
May 13 2008 14:06
RDOF
Yea i have thought about that but that really throws off a drivers momentum.
josieloves24
May 13 2008 14:06
That was really cool
What a sweet story! :x
RDOF_Posse
May 13 2008 14:04
That half time thing ain't a bad idea
Especially at California or the World 600. Throw a Competition caution and let the show begin again in twenty or thirty minutes or so, you could bring bands in to perform etc..
Challanger
May 13 2008 14:02
Wow
Cool that you got to share something you love with your mother