Yesterday “Catfish” posed an excellent question regarding the “number” or the “Man”. I know what is is for me , the Man but i also have a strong bond to that number.
Car numbers used to be just that to me back in the day before this sport became the marketing phenomenon that we have now. Dale was driving the blue and yellow Wrangler car when he first became a constant “blip” on my radar, I’ve thought long and hard about it but I can’t remember if that number really mattered to me then, it may be more "old timers disease " than anything else but I don’t remember it really mattering to me.
What I do remember is when he became the “Man in Black” and I saw that Black ball cap with the #3 on it, I had to have one and I’ve worn many of them to shreds since that time. I was a painter the last 20 or so yrs. of my workin’ life so I have ruined many of them
. I still have the one I wore in 2001 hangin over my work bench in my shop. they can throw it out when i kick the bucket myself but not one second before.
After “Daytona 2001” , no matter where I went there was always somebody , whether I knew them or not who would see that hat on my head and would flash me a three fingered salute. I know that they had absolutely no freakin’ idea how much that meant to me and I would have really liked to have told them but a grown up hippie doin the “ugly cry” in “Wally World”…..well you can visualize.
Before Dale Earnhardt I only had one Hero , a man that never let me down or made my life more difficult than it already was. He taught me to fish, hunt, build a fire….and probably not on HIS list, he showed me how to put one out (thats a whole blog in itself). He was always grinnin’ like a polecat cuz no matter what he was doin’, He was havin’ fun. I lost him when I was 18, just when I needed someone like him in my life more than ever…….he was my Dad. It’s been 30 yrs. I thought I was ready to write about him but I was wrong, it’s still too Raw and uncomfortable for me to think about, but Its’ down and I’m not gonna backspace it out. I thought I would never Idolize anyone else after that day until I watched this wild,
reckless talented race car driver that had that same “I’m havin a good time” grin on his face" win, lose or draw…..he had me from that point on.
I got the "Dale Earnhardt 5 cd box set as a present from my “Ol Lady” a couple of months back, I still have not gotten up the courage to open it and stick one of the disks in the dvd player, its been 7 yrs. and I’m still not ready, hopefully one day I will be.
I’m really glad that Richard has found that place in himself to let that #3 go, I’m gonna work on doin’ the same myself. I hope his Grandson makes him as proud as my 2 heros have made me.
peace
68ยงยง
13 Comments
88ThunderRd
Mar 26 2008 15:26
Hero's
Are few and far between, so happy you have yours. Mine, one is still with me, the other I lost as you did, at Daytona 2001. Wish your pain could be eased, all the best.
29dntc9
Mar 22 2008 12:44
Hey Bro
Dadgum that is one excellent blog man. You are especially fortunate that you had a Dad that was your Hero……….Wish we could ease your loss some……
gman4car07
Mar 21 2008 22:58
all i have to say
is amen
29thebomb
Mar 21 2008 22:50
nice blog
Hero’s don’t come along everyday.
LuvJGordon
Mar 21 2008 21:38
Ahhhhhhh 68
JRB88
Mar 21 2008 21:12
Great Blog 68
Frevr3fan
Mar 21 2008 19:51
68
Sorry about your dad.
I like the way you incorporated your dad with your Nascar hero. That was way cool. Excellent read. 
Harpo1958
Mar 21 2008 19:37
Damn, Hoss!
Great blog! Very touching. Sorry about your dad; I lost mine also.
Shortxer
Mar 21 2008 19:09
Now thats
putting your FEELINGS on paper!
EXCELLENT BLOG 68!
Kit_Kat
Mar 21 2008 18:30
Let the man be your hero
forever in your heart and mind.